I See You Made an Effort

I See You Made an Effort

Compliments, Indignities, and Survival Stories from the Edge of 50

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  • 256 Pages
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“Annabelle Gurwitch is the child prodigy of the literature on aging. The only downside of this book is that it is bound to deepen your laugh lines.” —Barbara Ehrenreich, author of Nickel and Dimed
Actor and humorist Annabelle Gurwitch returns with a wickedly funny book of essays about the indignities faced by femmes d’un certain âge. Whether she is falling in lust at the Genius Bar, coping with her best friend’s assisted suicide, or navigating the extensive—and treacherously expensive—anti-aging offerings at the beauty counter, Gurwitch confronts middle age with candor, wit, and a healthy dose of self-deprecation. Scorchingly honest, surreally and riotously funny, I See You Made an Effort is the ultimate coming-of-middle-age story and according to Bill Maher, “it should be required reading for anyone between the ages of 40 and death. Scratch that- even after death, it’s a must read.”
I See You Made an Effort

I See You Made an Effort

Written by: Annabelle Gurwitch


Praise for I See You Made An Effort:

**A New York Times bestseller**

“[A] rollicking collection of essays detailing the hazards encountered when a woman approaches 50…..Gurwitch tackles all of it all with aplomb. Her witty writing allows for deft exploration of even the most sensitive and intimate subjects while still finding the humor in her situation…These essays contain a devilish good dose of fun.” –Publisher’s Weekly

“A seriously funny collection of essays about teetering over the edge of 50…Gurwitch is squarely in Nora Ephron territory.”—NPR.com

“Annabelle Gurwitch is a funny woman….At the center of the book is a serious question: How are we supposed to age? She convincingly argues that there is no longer a template.”—Judith Newman, The New York Times

“Growing older may not be a picnic, but Annabelle packs her literary basket with riotous turns in I See You Made an Effort, her very funny, keen observations on middle age…Humor and sarcasm may serve as the driving force behind each of these essays, but profound insight into the absurdities of modern middle age ultimately infuses Gurwitch’s smart, searing wit.”—Shelf Awareness (starred)

“Whatever you do, do not mistake “I See You Made an Effort” as some kind of chick-lit book, because Annabelle Gurwitch’s essay collection about middle age is far from it.  Rather, it’s a spot-on series of reflections on women in their 40s and 50s — the things they endure in the name of vanity and how society dictates so many of those things….But with each essay, or section, before she drags us down too far, she comes back with wit and another honest look at aging…. with a certain sense of humor and humility about getting older and learning to live with it.”—Amanda St. Armand, St. Louis Post-Dispatch
“Gurwitch confronts ageing the way we all should—with a healthy dose of hilarious self-deprecation.”—Mrs. Robinson Magazine

“You might think, judging from the pink Granny panties on the cover, and the title…that Annabelle Gurwitch’s book was a sort of literary “Menopause: The Musical.” Fortunately, it’s anything but. In addition to having a career as a working actress (and non-working, as she chronicled in an earlier book and documentary, Fired!) Gurwitch is an absolutely hilarious writer.”—Kristi Turnquist, The Oregonian

“[L]ighthearted, of-the-moment essays that address the many ups and downs of life at 50….highly likable.”
“The essays in I See You Made an Effort touch on such familiar subjects as feeling invisible as 50 nears, being mother to an easily embarrassed teenage son, and the dubious medicinal value of so-called “cosmecueticals.” But Gurwitch…recounts her adventures in the aging process with a distinctive voice, both sharp and likably self-deprecating.”
“Gurwitch has been aptly compared to Nora Ephron, she has the wry manner of Julia Sweeney, and has the smarts of Tina Fey. Wit and humor make these real-life tribulations a lot more fun – when you can’t turn back the hands on the clock, you can’t beat having a hilarious friend in Ms. Gurwitch to see you through, laughing.”
—Everyday Ebook Review
“[Annabelle Gurwitch’s] unflinching and wickedly funny coming-of-middle-age story confronts the inevitable grit and glory of reaching the autumn of one’s life.”—Amanda Montell, Time Out LA

“Annabelle Gurwitch takes us on a tour of the cruelest American punishment—female middle age—and along the way manages to highlight the existential questions that haunt every woman turning 50. Read, if you dare, I See You Made an Effort, and you will exit laughing at this rich display of Vintage Annabelle.”—Caitlin Flanagan, author of Girl Land and Goodbye to All

“The stories in Annabelle Gurwitch’s book are unexpected, imaginative and her observations just plain cracked me up. It’s so great it should be required reading for everyone between the ages of 40 and death. Scratch that—even after death it’s a must-read.” —Bill Maher

“In this heartfelt and hilarious book, Annabelle Gurwitch infuses her razor-sharp wit with uncommon vulnerability and grace. Gurwitch bravely shines a light into the darkest corners of her soul and somehow you still come away laughing. You will feel like you are curled up on her couch, sharing a glass of wine and doing that rare and wonderful thing: connecting.”
—Jillian Lauren, author of the New York Times bestselling Some Girls

I See You Made an Effort is so funny, humble, and nutty that you’ll wish Annabelle Gurwitch lived next door. I laughed and commiserated with all the indignities of getting a wee bit older in a youth-obsessed world. I teared up at her on-going frustrations with her teenager, which mirror my own. I enjoyed her open hostility and deep love toward her husband, which also (don’t tell anyone) mirrors my own. After reading this book, you won’t feel alone in your secret thoughts anymore. And you’ll laugh really hard—the frosting on the cake!” —Julia Sweeney, author of If It’s Not One Thing, It’s Your Mother
“Smart, hilarious, and deeply moving, I See You Made an Effort captures the highs (few) and lows (more than a few) of not just turning fifty, but turning fifty in our time. From “having work done,” to mothering a mortified teenage son, to revealing the truth about married sex, Gurwitch lays bare the harsh reality of hitting the half-century mark in a way that keeps you simultaneously laughing and turning pages.” —Cathi Hanauer, author of Gone and editor of The Bitch in the House

“Hooray for Annabelle Gurwitch, whose funny and clear-eyed book proves that the best way to face aging is with copious amounts of laughter. Peals not peels!” —Henry Alford, author of Would It Kill You to Stop Doing That?
“Annabelle Gurwitch proves that fifty is the new funny! I See You Made an Effort is a hilarious romp through mid-life’s ups and downs, sags and droops, younger men and rompers and the voices of our mothers.” —Lisa Bloom, author of Think and Swagger
“Annabelle Gurwitch was always one of my favorite actresses, and now she’s become one of my favorite writers. Her riff on living at “the intersection of feminism and Feministing” stayed with me. With as much heart as social commentary, I See You Made an Effort is ultimately not about aging out of anything—it’s about aging into a bigger and better version of yourself than your younger self ever imagined.”
—Jill Soloway, director, producer of Grey’s Anatomy and Six Feet Under, and author of Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants

“Annabelle Gurwitch is the child prodigy of the literature on aging. At the youthful age of fifty, when most of us are stealthily burning our AARP magazines so the neighbors don’t find them in the recycling, she has figured out how to make the humiliations of aging hilarious. The only downside of this book is that it is bound to deepen your laugh lines.” —Barbara Ehrenreich, author of Nickel and Dimed

“Annabelle Gurwitch’s I See You Made An Effort is a little like going to get a mammogram with Lucille Ball.” —Jeanne Darst, author of Fiction Ruined My Family
“Annabelle Gurwitch stares into the maw of middle age and makes you laugh, cringe, hoot and holler. She turns fifty into a battle cry and a hallelujah.” —Felicity Huffman
“Whip smart and Ephron-funny, I See You Made an Effort is beautifully written and tender-hearted. It’s a love letter in your pocket for the inevitable journey that lies ahead.” —Jane Kaczmarek


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